My Life

daring to Dream

K. Ali Ellington was born in Long Beach and raised in Carson California. He was introduced to the game of chess by his dad, Rue. An avid chess player, the elder Ellington sought to encourage critical thinking in his seven year old son and to lay a foundation for advanced decision making.

Ali was the youngest boy in a neighborhood peppered with gang affiliates~. While wanting the best for his son, his dad prepared Ali for the worst. So, Rue sought less to raise a chess master, than to raise a “life” master. There were early indications that Rue’s chess infused nurturing was bearing fruit. By the 4th grade, Ali found himself confronted with overwhelming challenges, including relentless peer pressure to “box.” On at least one occasion, rather than capitulate to the pugilistic pressure, Ali cleverly managed to shift the fascination of his adversary from exchanging punches on his front lawn with exchanging pieces in his living room on the chess board ~. This did more than just level the playing field; it eventually shifted the values to some degree in the neighborhood in Ali’s favor.

Out of sheer necessity he became a proficient chess instructor even then. On one particular occasion Ali cleverly tutored his former tormentor through the fundamentals of chess, helping him grasp the concept of the game (in one sitting) that they might immediately engage in what Ali would eventually label, “Battle of the Minds Competitions.
Ali found the discipline and fun of the game served to temper the juvenile swagger of some, making them better neighbors as well as friends~. Clearly, critical thinking and decision making had found a foothold in young Ellington’s life.

Graduating from high school at the age of 17, Ali began to engage in the college and club scene which contributed toward him falling into several social distractions. Like many young men his age, the intriguing club and dating scene was the dominant influence of the day. Being cool was the goal and Ali aimed to be cooler than most to his own detriment. Ambitious and unrestrained, Ali was heading in the wrong direction in many areas of his life. Though his parents instilled in him the values to know right from wrong and provided him the tools to reason the way, yet in the face of the broad road of malfeasance and the pressures and temptations of young adulthood where freewill is fully realized, it wasn’t enough. Hence, what was lacking surfaced and bore the fruit of immorality, even using profanity as part of his daily vocabulary. Interestingly, before long sincere and concerned people began to appear in Ali’s life that would impart wisdom, leading Ali to become ashamed of how far he had drifted from that which he inwardly knew was right. They helped remind him how every move he was making had consequences. With their help, Ali was introduced to what was missing in his foundation, CHRIST. After having several close calls with death, Ali came to grasp the universal principle that we truly reap what we sow. It was during this time that Ali was invited to BIBLE Study and prayer, and before long Ali began reading and pursuing a purposeful life.

One of the concerned people was Neisha, the love of his life. By the time Ali was 19, they got married and moved in a small two bedroom apartment. Many well intentioned loved ones objected to Ali marrying so young, fearing that neither of these newlyweds fully understood the responsibilities their marriage would entail. Nevertheless, Ali with his hands full attending community college, working at UPS and vigorously pursuing a career in acting was hopeful that all would work out. In fact, Ali’s natural charm and well-honed performance skills quickly earned him a manager and a promising audition or two. There just weren’t enough hours in the day for this newly wed.

While he dreamed of success on the big screen, he found his critical thinking skills sorely tested by the opportunities as well as the challenges of every day life. In moments of solitude, he still found himself pondering a desire for clarity regarding the direction he ought to go in with his career path. Nothing would symbolize that more than when Ali came face to face with an acting opportunity of a lifetime. After an audition or two, a couple promising introductions, and a bunch of extra roles, Ali had seemingly performed his way up on to a short list for a major role in a potentially groundbreaking urban drama. The filmmakers were so high on Ali that the audition literally seemed to come down to Ali’s willingness to succumb and fully embody the role of the urban character. Ali could not have felt the weight of this moment more. This was more than an opportunity to star in a film. This was more than an opportunity to provide a comfortable life style for him and his wife. It was even more than an opportunity to inspire people while doing something he really enjoyed. At last, Ali might silence those well intentioned critics who had questioned Ali and Neisha’s readiness for marriage.

However, his final audition was running into a snag. Despite the producers’ apparent excitement over Ali’s performance, they were nonetheless having him read the same script sections over again. The problem was, Ali — critical thinker that he is—was cleverly replacing every profane word in his lines with what he felt was an acceptable substitute. So, with each reading, the producers’ enthusiasm may spring anew, only to be dashed by Ali’s substitutions. To Ali, portraying a character who swore at all—let alone as liberally as was written—would be an affront to all of his newfound values. He did not feel he could embody those values while speaking those words. The contradiction would prove catastrophic for young Ali. For the first time, he was having to choose between his dreams and his values. To be true to the spirit of their rugged urban drama, the producers needed Ali to fully embrace the gritty nature of the role and to make peace with the profane words in the script. To their dismay, Ali decided to remain true to his values…Ali knew that making a living as an actor would be tough enough without allowing for principles that could further diminish his prospects~. After all, he was now a godly married young man with responsibilities. And this experience had catastrophically revealed the contradictions inherent in his chosen profession. Reasoning that life must have another role for him to play, Ali sadly abandoned his dreams of life on the big screen.

UNLEASHING POTENTAL

Before long, Ali quit his job at UPS and was searching for an opportunity to do something he genuinely loved. Yet, unfortunately, he was no stranger to falling behind on his rent nor to having his bills stack up. By March of 1996, he found himself hard pressed, unemployed, overwhelmed and pretty distraught about his circumstances as well as his future. Ali (with Neisha by his side) turned to YESHUA THE CHRIST in prayer and asked that a door be open for him to make a living doing something he loved—even though he had no idea what that might be. Within three days he was guided to a want-ad calling for someone to teach chess in Palos Verdes. He immediately applied and landed the perfect job for someone of his talents—teaching the “game of life” to elementary school students. Ali would take full advantage of this opportunity. It was during this time that he developed his “invigorating” approach to teaching—with the help of his wife Neisha he made use of songs and stories to engage students in a unique and novel way. Ali developed a way to make the learning of chess “cool” and “fun.” Not only did the children learn to enjoy the game, but many (may be said to have) excelled~.

KINDLING A PASSION FOR KNOWLEDGE

After teaching chess in Palos Verdes, Torrance, Manhattan Beach, and Hawthorne at about a dozen or two different schools from 1996-1998 and attending community college intermittently, and living as a fully devoted volunteer within his church, Ali gained greater clarity on the role that life was calling him to fulfill. He desired to become a student of life so that he might one day merit wisdom worthy of passing on to others. It was about this time that a rare opportunity emerged where Ali and Neisha were offered an opportunity to apply for a dual internship. If they were selected, all of their living expenses for four years would be covered while being trained in every area of ministry~.
The catch was there was only one married couple position open and if selected both would need to be willing to quit their jobs as this was a full time opportunity. After counting the cost they applied for the 4 year internship for the M.I.T. (Minister in Training) Program, in Los Angeles. After so many months of taking test and going through the evaluation process where they were interviewed by a staff of ministers and well over a dozen of their peers who were also being considered for the same internship, Ali and Neisha were selected.

While Ali continued to teach chess from time to time, his primary focus was ministry. Ali thoroughly submerged himself in his studies. After graduating in 2001 with the M.I.T.’s highest honors, Ali was ordained a minister and his wife was ordained a women’s ministry leader. Some time later, he was appointed an Evangelist. Also, with his wife by his side, they were appointed to lead a congregation and moved on more than 5 separate occasions for ministry purposes between 1998 and 2003 that they might serve wherever they were needed.

EMPOWERING A GENERATION

Toward the end of Ali and Neisha serving in this ministerial capacity, Neisha received a dream in 2002~. She dreamed of her and Ali meeting with a Principal about their Chess Program. There was only one problem, they didn’t have one. They were full time ministers and all of their time was devoted toward studying, hospitality, serving, teaching, preaching, counseling, traveling, weddings, funerals and the like.

Though, not completely clear on all of what the dream was pointing to, Ali and Neisha moved forward in faith. Eventually they were given more confirmation by way of receiving support from the ministry who encouraged them to follow the direction within the dream.

As a result Ali and Neisha founded Chess Tutors in 2002. Nevertheless, uncertain on how to proceed they decided to go up to Palos Verdes on one of the highest hills (the place where their prayer in 1996 led them to begin teaching chess). Their visit was not in search of business opportunities, rather, to consult CHRIST in prayer. Following about 4 months of leaving the hill they landed their first school Brockton Elementary. Though they continued to serve full time in the ministry until May of 2003. Upon which time they were honorably released from their full time responsibilities. Though the ministry continued to call upon them as needs arose and Ali and Neisha maintained the heart to keep HEAVENS work as their FIRST priority (even to this day). They were now experiencing a full circle moment. Having given up all that they had attained for the possibility of what they could one day become; they were now embarking on a mission to promote and pass on the very critical thinking skills that was so effectively bestowed upon Ali not only by his father, Rue, but now all the more their FATHER in HEAVEN, YAHUAH.

Ali became particularly determined to teach those children with the greatest desire to learn yet prided himself in capturing the imagination, interest, and enthusiasm of previously uninitiated children for this ancient game of Kings. In effect, now known as The Duke of Chess, he is the one who ensure that chess makes a good “first impression.” While the overwhelming majority of chess programs may to varying degrees do a fine job of teaching the mechanics of the game, The Duke of Chess (and Chess Tutors) on the other hand is far more concerned with encouraging life masters than they are chess masters. They do this by teaching children how to apply the lessons of the board to their every day critical decision making.

Ultimately their aim in teaching students ChessLife Strategies is for students to learn how to translate their triumphs and mistakes on the chessboard into practical considerations of risk versus the benefits of every issue that arises in their life.

Ali, The Duke of Chess and Neisha (The Duchess) developed a curriculum which made use of songs, stories and motivational material to promote education, heighten cognition and ignite the fun in learning.

Phenomenally, having served as a counselor and life coach for countless families including distinguished public figures, The Duke of Chess and Chess Tutors would go on to reach over 100 schools/communities and over 100,000 children in the greater Los Angeles metropolitan area~. Chess Tutors would be acknowledged as “Business Partner of the Year” by the California Legislature, the County of Los Angeles, the State Senate, the Culver City Education Foundation and Miller Toyota!

Every year for over 20 years now, Chess Tutors proves what an effective disguised learning tool chess can be. Happily married for 29 years, Kyseme and Neisha have two offspring, Hannah’Noel, 21, and Noah, 24. They have lived and provided their services in Los Angeles County for many years now and they hope to continue to offer this service through their Children (Sir Noah and Lady Hannah), their amazing staff and Alumnus for many more years to come. With the help of Ali’s friend and business mentor J. Causey, and the knowledge of his Dad (Rue), the inspiration of his heroic Mom (Vickie), his loyal younger brother RaRa The Great, his dear friends Bobby Crawford, Steve Scott and Jeremiah Peisert (Sir Peisert), Kyseme and his wife Neisha Ellington founded and developed Chess Tutors into what it is today. This testimony about The Duke of Chess (and The Duchess) speaks to many aspects of life, not the least of which is that prayers are answered, and dreams do come true! To YESHUA (JESUS) THE CHRIST (WHO ORCHESTRATED all the above) — TO HIM BE ALL THE GLORY FOREVER and EVER! AMEN!

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